tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4714109603109709674.post57068079280553739..comments2018-10-12T10:09:31.418-07:00Comments on Dragonfly Homestead: To Work or Not to Work That is The Questioncarricomomhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04269938881555970870noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4714109603109709674.post-36512897348183255302011-10-03T18:38:08.075-07:002011-10-03T18:38:08.075-07:00Misty,
It's really a tough choice.. I see the...Misty,<br /><br />It's really a tough choice.. I see the up side of both. And the down side to both. <br /><br />The nice thing is if you went back to work you would be able to leave her with family instead of stranger so you know her emotional and physical needs would be met. I've not always had that option and ran into some really not great babysitters. <br /><br />This to would be good for her, because you don't want her so attached to you that you will never be able to leave her presences and that it will cause emotional harm if you go somewhere with out her. And yet she'd be able to make a bond with her grandparents. As she gets older this would give her a support system and another ear to listen to her.<br /><br />Being a stay at home mom to Colt since he was 1 has been rewarding and challenging but my biggest worry has been his over attachment to me.. I feared him being a mommy's boy because I was the only one who could calm him down or take care of him. <br /><br /><br />With only going back part time, not having to worry that the people taking care of Bug will provide everything, your giving her a chance to grow, and yourself a break, not to mention piece of mind that you have the financial backing you crave... Why not start out slow add a house at a time until you feel the right balance.. weather it's 1 house or 4? <br /><br />Give it a shot, if you or bug can't handle it at least you gave it a try and you won't look back and say I should have...<br /><br />It's not easy leaving your child I just cried today as my youngest got on the bus for his first half day at school... it's not easy but you can do it.Cherhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10955117702806832703noreply@blogger.com